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Why Your Self-Esteem is Important to Your Health

Why Your Self-Esteem is Important to Your Health

I often work as a weight loss and health coach with patients in our office. Working with our patients in this way has helped me understand something important about self-esteem. I have never believed that self-esteem comes from outside sources as much as it comes from within.

I believe that self-esteem is an accumulation of choices that we make every day of our lives. Whether we recognize it or not – each choice that we make, in regards to the type of person we choose to be, impacts not only who we are becoming but how we feel about ourselves.

I love the following quote by Stephen R. Covey: “Every human has four endowments- self awareness, conscience, independent will and creative imagination. These give us the ultimate human freedom… The power to choose, to respond, to change.”

What I have been able to observe as I have worked with individuals make positive changes in their lives and in their health is that as they demonstrate to themselves that they can make and keep commitments with their selves – their belief in their worth, their strength, and their potential grows.

I believe that conscience is a major player in self-esteem. I suspect that many people struggle with their self-esteem because their choices, their actions, and their lives in general are not congruent with their beliefs. Self-esteem is developed over time based on the balance of decisions we make, the actions we take, the way we treat others, the standards we set and maintain in regards to our goals and aspirations, and the level of respect, integrity, compassion, and discipline we give and receive throughout life.

I remember one of the women I worked with coming into my office after being on a modified diet for only 3 weeks. Each of those weeks she had lost weight and better yet, each week she had been able to sense how much better she was feeling. There was a light in her eyes and a noticeable difference in how she carried herself. Never before had she believed in her ability to make and keep a commitment – in her words “I have always believed I had no will power”. Three short weeks had taught her differently.
So what influence does self-esteem have on health?

I believe that when we live in harmony with our conscience – we make better choices in regards to the foods we eat, the activities (such as daily exercise) we participate in, and how diligent we are about our overall health.

What You Should Know about Whiplash

What You Should Know about Whiplash

Nearly 27% of drivers have been involved in a car crash in the last five years. (I was one of them.) In 2008 there were 208 million licensed drivers in the U.S. Based on these numbers we can estimate that over a five year period about 56,160,000 drivers will be involved in a car accident. That comes out to 11,232,000 accidents a year and over 30,000 a day. In other words…there are a lot of motor vehicle accidents in this country every year!

One of the most common injuries associated with motor vehicle accidents is whiplash. Whiplash is an injury to the neck caused by sudden acceleration-deceleration force. This is usually the result of a stationary vehicle being struck from behind. This causes the torso to thrust forward while the head is thrown back into hyperextension and then whipped forward into a hyper-flexed position. This causes stress and strain on the soft tissues of the neck including muscles, tendons, ligaments and joint capsules. Symptoms of whiplash include, but are not limited to pain, stiffness, headaches, dizziness, tinnitus and weakness.

Many factors account for the severity of whiplash and the resulting symptoms. The severity of the impact and position of the head at impact are major factors in the potential severity of the injury. The health of the individual prior to the accident can make a big difference. A young person in good health will fare better than an older individual with preexisting degenerative changes in the neck. However, regardless of the perceived severity of the accident, all whiplash cases need to be taken seriously no matter how minor it may appear.

In many situations only the symptoms of whiplash are treated. Muscle relaxers, pain killers and anti-inflammatory medications are often prescribed along with adequate rest. Unfortunately, this is often the extent of the treatment.

Because of the damage that occurs in a whiplash injury, degenerative changes may be put into place that may not become obvious for many years after the initial injury. I was fortunate when my accident occurred in that I knew to seek chiropractic help right away. Being married to a chiropractor, I knew the risk factors involved. Another bonus was that I have had lots of interaction with the patients in our office that have been in accidents. Time after time, they have expressed a desire that they wish they would have known how much chiropractic treatment would have helped them when they first had their accident. Many have found that chiropractic treatment helped where medications and physical therapy failed. If you have been in a car accident and suffered a whiplash injury, talk to a chiropractor… you’ll be glad you did!

Why Eating Healthier Will Make You Happier

Why Eating Healthier Will Make You Happier

If there is one thing that can be confusing these days is trying to figure out just what constitutes healthy eating and what doesn’t. There are lots of experts making various and conflicting claims.

In my opinion, looking to the big expert is key. What I mean by the big expert is God, the Creative Force of the Universe or whatever name you feel comfortable with. I know that there are some who believe that we just accidently showed up on this earth but I’m not one of them and so bear with me.

I have yet to find anyone who can replicate the creative genius I see manifested in the world of nature. I personally don’t need statistics to convince me – but even the science of statistics gives the nod to this world being created by something more than chance happening.

So…here are my thoughts on healthy eating:

Eat foods that still look like the foods they were meant to be. For example, a strawberry food should be made of strawberries…not lots of strawberry flavoring and strawberry color.

  • Eating foods that are refined versions of the foods they came from usually means one thing to your body – micro nutrients, fiber and all the good things that came packed with the original version have been eliminated. Believe it or not – if your taste buds have become accustomed to white bread and other refined foods – you can develop a taste for the whole grain counterpart and once you do – you won’t want to go back. You will learn that your body responds in positive ways to whole grain foods and that you will feel much better.
  • Good clean water and lots of it should be a part of healthy eating.
  • Sugar is not horrible in small quantities but in large quantities it contributes to weight and health issues that no one wants to experience. The typical American diet is loaded with too much sugar. Try using natural sugars such as honey and learn to use fruit to get your sugar kick!
  • Our food intake should include lots of fruits and vegetables, whole grains, and vegetable proteins and should minimize animal proteins. I am not suggesting that everyone should become vegetarian – but I am suggesting that animal protein does not need to be a part of every meal.
  • Moderation counts! Excessive portions – even of healthy foods are not good and add to the waistline. Excessive weight is hard on joints and can be hard on our health!
  • Diet changes need to be made over time and in a way that accommodates our lifestyle.

Science and technology have their place. However, I believe that God is the ultimate food scientist. I believe that in the years to come research will show that we get the most benefit from foods which have not been refined. If healthy eating has not been a part of your life – it is never too late to make a change. I have found that by eating healthy and eating foods that have not been refined – I have more energy, feel better and enjoy better overall health. I know that you and your body will feel the difference too! And…when we feel better – we are always happier!